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pulling :]?

ok... i havent kissed my boyfriend of 5 months yet. But im going to soon. so i was just wondering how long do u wait after u kiss to start pulling? Like 2 weeks after ur first kiss with that person? ect. My boyfriend is from Kentucky & where im from is a little more southern & we dont start pulling for a while. but all of his friends from ky pressure him about it. I want to kiss him really bad & he wants to kiss me but i was just wondering about the pulling thing :} pulling= tongue kissing :]]] help please

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1. no wait at all, pull at that you want he'll like this part of you
2. Whenever u feel ready. Dont let pressure get the best of u.
3. Pulling is a wierd name for kissing. But why wait 5months to kiss someone? thats wierd , just kiss him already!
4. =] Girl your only 13 ! you have you whole life .. .dont rush ... you only know when your ready when you actually no how to do it !!! trust me ! well if thats not good enough for you ... just move you tounge around his .... you will be fine AND remember make sure theres not too much spit or tounge ! =] and your first will be your worst so keep that in mind
5. when ever you feel like its right he has waited 5 months for a kiss he can wait for you to be ready to "pull"
6. Just remember that your first kiss will always be your wost. But you can do it when ever you want to you dont have to rush in to things if you aren't ready. Dont let him pressure you.
7. Sweetie call it French kissing it sounds more romantic. Don't let your friends, or your bf, pressure you into doing anything. French kissing feels gross at first, so take it slow, don't go for the "stealing his gun" the first time. I hope your have both told each other your limits, since French kissing is another step towards having full blown sex.
8. Lily: psshhh, do it on a first date, but for you your first kiss with him you should pull =]. Ashie[Me]: Lily is a whore dont listen to her. well i think after like your first kiss [no tounge] kiss him a couple more times through like a week then after a week pull him Lily: unless he goes in first =]. Ashie: Shut up lily. Both: Good luck!
9. OK, first off, you're making too much of a big deal over a kiss. I know you're young, and it sounds like it's going to be your first kiss, but you really have thought about it a bit too much. There is no "Kissing Timeline" you need to follow. You do it when you feel comfortable enough to share that with him. If you've been dating for 5 months, you're probably a little overdue for a kiss! As far as pulling goes, take it slow. Start with the quick yet passionate peck kisses. Then once you're comfortable with that, slip the tongue! It's not sex, so don't be too afraid. Oh, and nevermind what his/your friends say...they don't control the relationship between the two of you. If you want to kiss so bad, then go for it. Just tell him you want to take it slow. If he's been patient for the past 5 months, he'll be patient enough to hold back on the pulling until you're ready. And make sure you let him know you're ready/not ready for that kind of thing.